Having a favorite child is not as rare among families as one would think. How do you know if you made the cut? Here are some qualifications that are suggested to be common factors in your parents decision. 

• Gender

While research has mixed results about there being a specific gender that overwhelms the other when it comes to being the favorite child, there are solid reasons why each gender might be the favorite to each parent. For example, mothers prefer their daughters and fathers prefer their sons. Why? Simply because it is easier to bond with someone of the same sex. Even though the stereotypical “boy moms” and “girl dads” will always exist, it is good to keep in mind that if you are of the same gender of the parent you are trying to win over, you are already one step closer to your goal.

• Similarities

Along the lines of bonding, naturally the child who reflects the parents personality, interests and opinions will also have an easier time relating to his or her mom or dad than the sibling who shares nothing in common with them. Because of this, the parent will gravitate towards the kid who best represents almost another version of themselves. 

• Age 

Age also affects a relationship with a parent. In a study conducted by BYU professor Alex Jensen, it was shown that younger siblings tend to be the favorite. Due to the autonomy that the oldest usually enjoys, and the middle’s tendency to easily be left to their devices, younger siblings become the center of attention to their parents. While the older siblings have the freedom, they trade it in for the coddling and spoiling the youngest is granted.